Comments on: All You Need is Trust http://www.stratejoy.com/2010/02/all-you-need-is-trust/ Helping gutsy girls conquer their Quarterlife Crisis through workshops, online courses, coaching and motivational speaking. Fri, 10 Feb 2012 20:20:36 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Lisa Rosendahl http://www.stratejoy.com/2010/02/all-you-need-is-trust/comment-page-1/#comment-3270 Lisa Rosendahl Tue, 09 Feb 2010 01:06:23 +0000 http://www.stratejoy.com/?p=3192#comment-3270 An amazing post Kelly. You've created something wonderful in your life and I know you've only just begun. An amazing post Kelly. You’ve created something wonderful in your life and I know you’ve only just begun.

]]> By: Heather Rae http://www.stratejoy.com/2010/02/all-you-need-is-trust/comment-page-1/#comment-3265 Heather Rae Mon, 08 Feb 2010 19:03:56 +0000 http://www.stratejoy.com/?p=3192#comment-3265 Your honesty in this post is so refreshing. I think what you wrote about trust, openness and honesty is so, so important. I have worked SO hard in my relationship to do the same thing - it is definitely hard work, but it keeps us growing together instead of apart. Great post! Your honesty in this post is so refreshing. I think what you wrote about trust, openness and honesty is so, so important. I have worked SO hard in my relationship to do the same thing – it is definitely hard work, but it keeps us growing together instead of apart. Great post!

]]> By: Kate http://www.stratejoy.com/2010/02/all-you-need-is-trust/comment-page-1/#comment-3264 Kate Mon, 08 Feb 2010 18:30:28 +0000 http://www.stratejoy.com/?p=3192#comment-3264 Five years ago, when I had just ended an abusive relationship and spent way too much of my time blaming myself, someone gave me spoke some wise words: "You can't expect someone else to love you, if you can't love yourself." I'm glad you are finding what you need in this new relationship and in this new chapter in life. It's just a small step to loving yourself. Five years ago, when I had just ended an abusive relationship and spent way too much of my time blaming myself, someone gave me spoke some wise words: “You can’t expect someone else to love you, if you can’t love yourself.”

I’m glad you are finding what you need in this new relationship and in this new chapter in life. It’s just a small step to loving yourself.

]]> By: April http://www.stratejoy.com/2010/02/all-you-need-is-trust/comment-page-1/#comment-3263 April Mon, 08 Feb 2010 18:22:57 +0000 http://www.stratejoy.com/?p=3192#comment-3263 So this slapped me right in the face today. Great way to look at everything and congrats to you for being honest and for finding someone to be honest with in your life. So this slapped me right in the face today. Great way to look at everything and congrats to you for being honest and for finding someone to be honest with in your life.

]]> By: Katie http://www.stratejoy.com/2010/02/all-you-need-is-trust/comment-page-1/#comment-3262 Katie Mon, 08 Feb 2010 18:06:37 +0000 http://www.stratejoy.com/?p=3192#comment-3262 I think this is why a lot of relationships fail - when you're not your total and complete self, how can you expect someone to love all of you? This is when people begin to feel misunderstood and that the "other person just doesn't get them". Well, they would if you put yourself out there. Easier said than done, clearly. However, we're all guilty of sugar coating, or omission, and that doesn't do us any good. In the moment, we avoid grief and reliving the past, but in the long run, we end up being hurt. Well done, Kelly! :) I think this is why a lot of relationships fail – when you’re not your total and complete self, how can you expect someone to love all of you? This is when people begin to feel misunderstood and that the “other person just doesn’t get them”. Well, they would if you put yourself out there.

Easier said than done, clearly. However, we’re all guilty of sugar coating, or omission, and that doesn’t do us any good. In the moment, we avoid grief and reliving the past, but in the long run, we end up being hurt.

Well done, Kelly! :)

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