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Coach. Teacher. Writer. Mama.
Fancy titles include Freedom Instigator, Joy Enthusiast and Fierce Love Advocate.
I believe in champagne, utter honesty and creating your own version of success.
If you are thinking about making changes or about learning what truly makes you happy, this course is for you.
Erin, Washington
an IT professional who loves urban hiking, bagels and cream cheese, books, and her two Burmese cats.Resources
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An Exciting New Year of Possibilities
Maybe I won’t accomplish everything on my list in one year, but I plan to take full advantage of all the support I have. This is my year, and I’m going to rock it!
Posted in All Posts, Inspiration, Nicole, Season 7
Also tagged authenticity, big dreams, Fear, goals, gratitude, holiday council, Inspiration, nicole, nicole season 7 stratejoy, self-awareness
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So much Inspiration, Self-Love and Authenticity
The last few weeks I’ve experienced quite a range of emotions – from soul-aching sadness to heart-melting happiness. It has been quite a ride, but I’ve never felt more alive than I do right now.
Posted in All Posts, Inspiration, Life Lesson, Nicole, Season 7
Also tagged authenticity, big dreams, dreams, happiness, Inspiration, joy, Life Lessons, living in the present, love, Loving Yourself, nicole, nicole stratejoy season 7, self love, self-awareness, Stratejoy Nicole
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Jumping Into the Unknown
I know I can’t let fear rule my life. At some point I have to choose to jump into the unknown or remain in the same stagnant place I’ve been. I’m trying hard to work up the courage to jump because I really don’t want to be in the same place when November 2013 rolls around.
Posted in All Posts, Job/Career/Work, Mamahood, Nicole, Season 7
Also tagged authenticity, big dreams, career, Fear, goals, motherhood, nicole, nicole season 7 stratejoy, self love, self-awareness
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The Peace that Comes from Naming your Passion
I want to be a model of a woman who loves herself, who finds joy in ordinary places, who celebrates her individuality – and I want to pay it forward.
Posted in All Posts, Inspiration, Job/Career/Work, Life Lesson, Nicole, Season 7
Also tagged authenticity, big dreams, career, goals, Inspiration, joy, nicole, nicole season 7 stratejoy, quarter life crisis, self love, self-awareness, stratejoy, Stratejoy Nicole, writing
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What’s it gonna cost you?
Oprah made me cry.
Actually, it was Iyanla Vanzant who made me cry, but it was on an episode of Oprah’s Lifeclass. Close enough, right? I don’t even remember what they were talking about, to be honest with you. I was just half-watching while I contemplated my homework for Fierce Love. And then this completely grabbed my attention:
“Everything that happens to you is a reflection of what you believe about yourself. We cannot outperform our level of self-esteem. We cannot draw to ourselves more than we think we are worth.” – Iyanla Vanzant
Posted in All Posts, Erin, Life Lesson, Quarterlife Crisis, Season 7
Also tagged afraid, authenticity, facing your fears, Fear, letting go, Life Lessons, making a change, making important life changes, Quarterlife Crisis, self-awareness
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Learning to move forward even when life isn’t perfect
I know, life isn’t always going to go perfectly. In fact, it will likely be filled with many unexpected challenges. My hope is that I can get to a point where those challenges don’t set off a negative mental spiral. A point where I can treat myself with the love and forgiveness that I would show to others.
Posted in All Posts, Life Lesson, Nicole, Season 7
Also tagged big dreams, goals, letting go, life, nicole, nicole season 7 stratejoy, self doubt, self love, self-awareness, writing
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A Girl and Her Baggage
The best part about temporarily living in another country is that I’m surrounded by only the most essential elements– my husband, my computer, a camera, a few art supplies and an eighth of my wardrobe. There’s a strong sense of stillness, simplicity, and space– both physical and emotional– that brings my attention to what’s important. The downside to this is that I have nowhere to hide from myself, from the parts of me that I try to push down, that I don’t want to deal with.
Posted in Caiti, Creativity, Job/Career/Work, Quarterlife Crisis, Season 6
Also tagged career, Fear, Quarterlife Crisis, self-awareness
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A Skeptic Hippie’s Take on Manifesting
I’m going to reveal my quinoa-eating, kombucha-drinking, yoga-breathing inner hippie and talk about manifesting today. Break out the incense, people. Fifty percent of me is actually a healthy skeptic. I mean, wishing things into existence? Really? … But the other fifty percent of me has experienced quite a few situations– many of them quite recently– that make me unable to fully brush off manifesting as new age bullcrap.
Posted in Caiti, Creativity, Inspiration, Money, Season 6, Spirituality
Also tagged big dreams, goals, gratitude, Inspiration, Manifesting, manifesting the future
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So World, Are You Ready to Conspire With Me?
The most riveting and terrifying aspect of my life is that I never know what to expect next. If I pronounce wholeheartedly what I aspire to achieve in these next five months, work just as fervently to accomplish them, and have the support of other lovely ladies, then I’m confident that they will become tangible and not just meandering thoughts.
Posted in All Posts, Camila, Creativity, Events, Job/Career/Work, Money, Season 6
Also tagged goals, life planning, money, organization, writing
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Thank You
I can’t believe that it’s been over a year since I wrote my last post for Stratejoy. It feels like a lifetime has passed. Baby number 3 came and now he’s crawling. The little girl now has ponytails, not just curly puffs that sit on top of her head. The oldest, well his outstretched arms reach the tops of my shoulders.
Posted in Alisha, Life Lesson, Season 3
Also tagged gratitude, happiness, Life Lessons, Quarterlife Crisis, self love, self-awareness
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