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Coach. Teacher. Writer. Mama.
Fancy titles include Freedom Instigator, Joy Enthusiast and Fierce Love Advocate.
I believe in champagne, utter honesty and creating your own version of success.
I’ve been waiting for years for this kind of revelation.
L, New York, New York
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Tag Archives: joy
9 New Ways to Practice Gratitude
While watching Brené Brown on Oprah’s Super Soul Sunday this weekend, I was reminded of the remarkable link between joy and gratitude.
In her book The Gifts of Imperfection she writes, “Without exception, every person I interviewed who described living a joyful life or who described themselves as joyful, actively practiced gratitude and attributed their joyfulness to their gratitude practice. And both joy and gratitude were described as spiritual practices that were bound to a belief in human interconnectedness and a power greater than us.”
Posted in Molly, Popular, Tips & Tools
Also tagged brene brown, gratitude, how to practice gratitude, molly mahar gratitude, Oprah's Super Soul Sunday, practicing gratitude, vulnerabilty
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And All That’s Left is Goodbye
And now the time has come to say goodbye. I hate goodbyes – like really hate them. I’ve been known to stay friends with people or stay in relationships far too long because I have such an aversion to goodbyes. And As my Elevate loves can tell you, I’m a goodbye crier. I will try [...]
Posted in All Posts, Inspiration, Life Lesson, Nicole, Season 7
Also tagged authenticity, big dreams, choosing happiness, gratitude, happiness, letting go, nicole, nicole stratejoy season 7, self love, self-awareness
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Nicole: On the Record and Oversharing
It’s totally bittersweet for me, but I think this was my most favorite week of the whole season! It was so much fun to see the questions my fellow Season 7 rockstars came up with and I had a blast answering them. You may learn a few things about me that you didn’t want to know and for that I don’t really apologize…I’m quirky and I’m told its a pretty lovable trait. ENJOY!
Posted in All Posts, Inspiration, Life Lesson, Nicole, Quarterlife Crisis, Season 7
Also tagged authenticity, big dreams, career, choosing happiness, fierce love, goals, gratitude, Inspiration, Life Lessons, living in the present, nicole, nicole stratejoy season 7, QLC, self love, self-awareness
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Joy and Peace vs Fear and Confusion
I don’t really know how to reconcile these two sides of me. For now I’m taking it one day at a time and hoping I have more days where I feel happy and peaceful than days where I feel fearful and guilty.
Posted in All Posts, Inspiration, Mamahood, Nicole, Season 7
Also tagged authenticity, big dreams, choosing happiness, Fear, gratitude, letting go, love, nicole, nicole stratejoy season 7
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So much Inspiration, Self-Love and Authenticity
The last few weeks I’ve experienced quite a range of emotions – from soul-aching sadness to heart-melting happiness. It has been quite a ride, but I’ve never felt more alive than I do right now.
Posted in All Posts, Inspiration, Life Lesson, Nicole, Season 7
Also tagged authenticity, big dreams, Clarity, dreams, happiness, Inspiration, Life Lessons, living in the present, love, Loving Yourself, nicole, nicole stratejoy season 7, self love, self-awareness, Stratejoy Nicole
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The Peace that Comes from Naming your Passion
I want to be a model of a woman who loves herself, who finds joy in ordinary places, who celebrates her individuality – and I want to pay it forward.
Posted in All Posts, Inspiration, Job/Career/Work, Life Lesson, Nicole, Season 7
Also tagged authenticity, big dreams, career, Clarity, goals, Inspiration, nicole, nicole season 7 stratejoy, quarter life crisis, self love, self-awareness, stratejoy, Stratejoy Nicole, writing
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I Found Joy (In A Hopeless Place)
I might not have a boyfriend or a job or a sick ass body but I do not, by any means, have NOTHING. I have my friends and my family and my health. I have a city of endless possibilities, gorgeous spring days and the ability to dance like an idiot in my room whenever I feel like it. My life is far from over.
Posted in All Posts, Arielle, Love/Relationships, Quarterlife Crisis, Season 6
Also tagged happiness, Music, Quarterlife Crisis
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Changing My Life’s Trajectory In 6 Easy Steps
I love the path of least resistance. Who doesn’t? It protects you from getting hurt and lets you watch countless episodes of 30 Rock instead of doing…anything. It’s also boring and unfulfilling, and I refuse to continue on this way.
Posted in Arielle, Job/Career/Work, Love/Relationships, Season 6
Also tagged career, dating, getting healthy, Goal Setting
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Finishing my manifesto and learning what self-love really is
Sitting in a bright red Ikea chair at a local coffee shop, it hit me. The deadline smacked me across the face like the icy wind on the walk to the shop, and I knew, I was screwed.
It was the day I was supposed to unleash my brilliant, value-packed, fabulous new email opt-in on the world – and my manifesto wasn’t done. At least not totally. After weeks of hashing it out, scrapping sections, and letting my heart pour on to the page, it still. wasn’t. done.
Posted in Creativity, Dusti, Life Lesson, Season 5
Also tagged Joyful Living, letting go, manifesto, self love, writing
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Breaking Free of Poverty Mindset – Here’s to My New Money Shoes
Money hasn’t been an easy subject for me for a long time. When I was a kid, I was a saver. But my mom would “borrow” my money, so I learned to spend it when I had it.
Now, I owe $30,000 in student loan debt, due to start being paid back in June. And a baby due February 29th. As you can imagine, “I got my mind on the money, and the money on my mind.”
Posted in All Posts, Dusti, Job/Career/Work, Money, Season 5, Tips & Tools
Also tagged afraid of making money, big dreams, gratitude, money, money issues, overcoming underearning, poverty mindset, ramit sethi, self sabotage, Travel, writing
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